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Okay, so, um, you know, I wanted to talk a little bit about, like, this idea of late bloomers. It's, like, something that's always kind of fascinated me, you know? And it all kinda, um, started with this story of Katharine Graham.
So, she, uh, she basically became the CEO of the Washington Post Company, which, you know, was like, a huge deal, right? Radio, TV, Newsweek, the Post itself… And the thing is, like, she didn't really see it coming, you know? Like, her husband passed away, and suddenly she was running everything. It's wild.
And, like, before that, she was, like, constantly put down, you know, by her mom and her husband. She didn't even have the confidence to, like, pick out her own clothes for a party! Can you imagine? She just, like, didn't think she was capable of, like, running a company like that. Even though her dad, uh, owned the Post. She even said, like, when she bought a house, she didn't know the difference between income and capital. She was into the news but bored with all that business stuff.
But, you know, when her husband, like, died, she had this choice, right? Sell the business or run it herself. Everyone told her to sell. But she didn't.
And guess what? She became, like, one of the most successful CEOs of the twentieth century! It's, like, totally unexpected, right?
People thought, like, her success came out of nowhere. But, you know, the thing is, it wasn't out of nowhere. She had the potential, she just needed the chance. She had everything she needed, she was just overlooked, you know?
So, she, um, she had the skills all along, she just needed the opportunity. She learned from everything, even the bad stuff. She was, like, super resilient, you know? And she just kept going, no matter what. And that shows that just deciding to act when you have a challenge can bring out your potential, like, make you more capable.
And that’s what this is all about, you know? It's about these, like, late bloomers and what makes them tick.
Like, Graham's life kinda hinged on this, like, incredibly sad moment. But she decided to, you know, switch from one life to another. She went from, like, hanging out in drawing rooms to, like, running the boardroom. It was like she was, uh, teleported, you know?
And the question is, like, how did she do it? Right?
Well, there was this study, um, done on the careers of scientists, filmmakers, and artists. And they were looking at these, like, "hot streaks," you know, these really productive periods. And what they found was that before a hot streak, there's this exploration phase, you know? You're gathering ideas. And then there's this exploitation phase, where you're turning those ideas into something amazing.
It's like this, explore/exploit thing. You gotta find the right balance, you know? Explore your options, and then, like, make the most of what you know. And the key thing is, it's not just about exploring or just about exploiting. It's about switching from one to the other. Exploring, *then* exploiting helps you, like, find the best ideas and open up, you know, your creative possibilities.
Like, too much exploring and you're just a dabbler. Too much exploiting and you're, like, stuck doing the same old thing. You gotta make the switch to have your hot streak, you know? And that can happen at any point in your career, which is great.
And, so, late bloomers, like, they go through these two stages, you know? They take this long, winding, unplanned career path, right? And then they get this chance. It's the right people, the right place, the right time, you know? And their network, where they are, even a, uh, personal change, um, can kinda pull together all those random experiences and focus them, right? They switch from explore to exploit. They just do it later than everyone else.
They often have kinda, like, patchwork careers, you know? It looks unfocused, right? But they're, like, preparing for the unexpected. And when they find their opportunity, they just, like, really go for it, you know? Luck favors the prepared mind, like they say, right?
And these stages kinda have a few things in common. It's the right people, the right place, the right time. And to figure out how late bloomers make that switch, we need to look at their networks, the culture they're in, and those, like, transformative moments, you know, the crisis points in their lives.
Weak ties, like, people you barely know, can actually be the ones to change your life. Personal change can happen by trying new cultures, sampling new things, changing your environment. And you gotta, like, use those crisis moments, not just, like, go through them, you know? A midlife crisis could be a, you know, a pivot point.
And, um, there’s three characteristics that show up again and again. Like, first, they are persistent. They may not be working towards a specific thing, but they follow their interests and ambitions.
Second, they are earnest. They're serious, intense, maybe a little eccentric, you know? People around them might not get them. Their talents can be hidden.
And third, they are quiet. Their goals are secret, maybe even from themselves. They grow their skills with experience. And, um, sometimes it’s later in life when they realize that they are ready for something, you know, exceptional.
So, yeah, late bloomers are often overlooked, but they're, like, quietly and steadily building those qualities that will eventually lead them to success. And the more active they are in that process, the more likely they are to find that opportunity and, like, really kill it.
And, you know, to really understand this, it's, like, important to look at real stories, you know? These people's lives, 'cause knowing the theory isn't enough. We need to see how it works in real life, what it's like to become a late bloomer so we can, like, maybe live differently.
We need to see how the brain develops as we age and how important it is to practice. And we need to see those things in action, in real people's lives. If we wanna, like, change ourselves or spot the potential in others, we need those examples alongside, like, the science.
And so, that’s, uh, what it's all about, is taking inspiration from real lives.